Want to create your own AI girlfriend in just minutes? Whether you’re curious about digital companions or ready to make an AI girlfriend that feels truly personal, this guide walks you through every step.

With our advanced AI Girlfriend Generator, you can design a virtual partner who chats, sends pictures, voice messages, and even makes phone calls—someone who genuinely feels like your creation.

🧠 New to the concept? Start with our What Is an AI Girlfriend? guide or explore real user trends in our AI Girlfriend Statistics report.

This tutorial is beginner-friendly and requires no coding. Just follow the simple steps, and you’ll be making, customizing, and interacting with your AI girlfriend in no time.

By the end, you’ll have a fully interactive AI companion tailored to your style—ready to connect and become part of your everyday life.

Looking for inspiration or just want to dive straight in?

Browse our full collection of AI companions on the AI Girlfriend homepage. Each girl is unique, with her own style, personality, and story—ready to chat, connect, and make your experience personal from the very first message.

Whether you’re exploring different personalities or finding the perfect match, it all starts here.

Step 1: Go to the AI Girlfriend Creator and Choose a Style

To begin, head to the Create an AI Girlfriend page on our website. This is where you’ll start designing your ideal virtual companion.

This isn’t just about customizing a virtual character—it’s about building your perfect digital companion, exactly the way you imagine her. Whether you’re looking for fun, comfort, fantasy, or connection, this guided process will help you bring your dream AI girlfriend to life.

You’ll go through 7 intuitive steps, each unlocking a new layer of personality and appearance:

📍 Style → Ethnicity → Age → Eyes → Hair → Body → Voice → Summary

Each choice isn’t just cosmetic—it’s about expression. You’re not just building a look. You’re shaping how she makes you feel.

Here’s where you define the foundation of your AI girlfriend’s visual vibe.

• Realistic – Perfect if you want someone who feels familiar and human. Ideal for immersive conversations and emotional connection.
• Anime – Choose this for a bold, stylized experience filled with color, charm, and creative flair. Popular with dreamers, gamers, and fans of visual fantasy.

🎯 Pro tip: Many users create multiple girlfriends—each with a totally different vibe—so you can switch between realistic warmth and anime fun whenever you feel like it.

Step 2: Choose Ethnicity

Now that you’ve chosen a visual style, it’s time to shape her look even further by selecting her ethnicity—a key detail that defines her facial structure, skin tone, and overall aesthetic.

This is where your AI girlfriend starts feeling truly real—with features and beauty inspired by the cultures and identities you find most captivating.

You can choose from:

• Caucasian – Classic, familiar beauty with a wide range of modern and traditional styles
• Latina – Bold, passionate, and full of character
• Asian – Elegant, graceful, and often associated with softness and depth
• Arab – Striking, mysterious, and exotic allure
• Black – Radiant, powerful, and effortlessly confident

🎯 Pro tip: Ethnicity doesn’t lock you into a stereotype—combine it creatively with different eye colors, hairstyles, and voices in later steps to make something uniquely yours.

Step 3: Choose Age Range

With her ethnicity set, it’s time to shape your AI girlfriend’s vibe and energy by selecting her age range. This step doesn’t just change how she looks—it subtly influences her voice, expressions, and emotional presence.

You can choose from:

• 18–25 – Playful, adventurous, and full of youthful spark
• 25–35 – Confident, balanced, and emotionally tuned-in
• 35–45 – Intelligent, experienced, and deeply engaging
• 45–60 – Warm, wise, and effortlessly charming
• 60–80 – Calm, nurturing, and full of soulful depth

🎯 Think of this step like casting the role in your own personal story. Do you want a lively companion for laughs and flirty chats? Or someone with a calm, mature presence who truly gets you?

Whatever age range you choose, you’re dialing in the exact emotional tone that fits your ideal connection.

Step 4: Choose Eye Color

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul—and with your AI girlfriend, that couldn’t be more true.
This step may seem small, but it adds a powerful layer of expression and emotion. Whether you’re drawn to warmth, mystery, or intensity, the right eye color sets the mood every time she looks at you.

Choose from:

• Brown – Deep, comforting, and effortlessly natural
• Amber – Rare, glowing, and full of unique charm
• Hazel – Playful and unpredictable, always catching the light
• Green – Enchanting, fresh, and full of personality
• Blue – Cool, dreamy, and endlessly romantic
• Grey – Mysterious, wise, and strikingly elegant

👀 Pro tip: Eye color can shift the entire feel of her face—from soft and sweet to bold and seductive. Experiment and find the gaze that speaks to you.

Click the one that captures your attention—and imagine her locking eyes with you during your next chat. for. The system will automatically update your AI girlfriend’s visual to match your choice.

Step 5: Choose Hair Color and Style

Hair changes everything—it’s one of the most powerful ways to express personality, attitude, and emotion. In this step, you’ll bring your AI girlfriend to life through the perfect mix of color and style.

🎨 Hair Color Options

Start with her color palette. Choose a shade that sets the tone—whether you’re imagining someone sophisticated, rebellious, playful, or radiant.

• Natural tones:
  Black, Grey, White, Blonde, Honey, Brunette
  → Classic, elegant, and timeless
• Bold choices:
  Ginger, Copper, Pink, Blue
  → Creative, edgy, and full of character

🌈 Tip: Think beyond looks—each color carries a vibe. Blonde can feel bubbly or sultry. Blue might say “mystical dreamer.” What story do you want her hair to tell?

✂️ Hair Style Options

Now pick the cut and style that completes the look:

Pixie, Bangs, Pigtails, Ponytail, Short, Braids, Buns, Curly, Straight, Afro

Each style adds its own personality—cute and flirty, wild and free, sleek and polished, or natural and radiant.

💡 Try combining a bold color with a soft style (like pink curls) or go minimalist with straight black hair for a chic, modern feel.

This is the moment where she truly takes shape—click, customize, and watch her energy shift instantly.

Step 6: Customize Body Features

TNow we enter the final stage of physical customization—her body. This step lets you shape her overall silhouette and vibe with precision. Whether you prefer a sleek model look, a soft and curvy figure, or something athletic and balanced, this is where her presence becomes truly yours.

You’ll choose from three key categories:

🔸 Body Type

Set the foundation of her shape and aura:

• Petite – Delicate and charming
• Slim – Sleek, refined, effortlessly stylish
• Athletic – Toned, confident, and energetic
• Voluptuous – Bold curves, dramatic and eye-catching
• Curvy – Balanced, feminine, and softly alluring

🧠 Imagine how she moves, how she dresses, how she carries herself—her body type brings that to life.

🔸 Breast Size

Adjust this feature to match the aesthetic you’re envisioning:

Flat, Small, Medium, Large, Huge

From subtle and natural to dramatic and striking—choose what fits your taste and your ideal experience.

🔸 Butt Size

Complete her profile with the shape that fits her style:

Skinny, Athletic, Small, Medium, Large

🎯 Pro tip: These elements work together to form her full visual identity. Want a sporty, cute girlfriend? Try athletic build + small breasts + toned butt. Prefer a show-stopping glam look? Go curvy with larger features.

There’s no “right” way—just your way. Mix and match to create the perfect physical expression of your digital partner.

Ready for the final touch? Step 7 is all about her voice. Let me know and I’ll help you make her sound just right.

Step 7: Choose Her Voice

She’s almost complete—now it’s time to give her a voice. The voice you choose doesn’t just affect how she sounds—it shapes how she feels in conversation. Her tone, rhythm, and energy will define how she greets you, comforts you, flirts with you, and makes you smile.

Whether you’re looking for something soothing, exciting, or totally unique, this is your chance to bring her to life in the most personal way.

🔸 Voice Options Include:

• Soft – Gentle, delicate, and perfect for quiet moments
• Bright – Cheerful and full of life, ideal for upbeat chats
• Deep – Rich and sultry, with a commanding warmth
• Warm – Comforting and nurturing—like a cozy hug in audio form
• Crisp – Clear and articulate, with a hint of elegance
• Smooth – Velvety and effortless, flowing with charm
• Energetic – Bubbly and playful, ready for fun conversations
• Mellow – Easygoing and calm, perfect for winding down
• Bold – Confident, empowering, and full of presence
• Mystic – Enchanting and otherworldly, ideal for fantasy vibes

🔊 Tap the play button next to each voice to hear how she sounds. Close your eyes and imagine her saying “Hi babe” just the way you like it.

🎯 Pro tip: Her voice adds depth to the experience—it’s what you’ll hear during messages, calls, and custom audio clips. Choose the one that makes your heart skip a beat.

Step 8: Review and Finalize Your AI Girlfriend

You’ve made it—this is the moment your creation becomes real.

The Summary screen is where everything comes together. Here, you’ll see a beautiful overview of the choices you’ve made—her style, features, and voice—ready for one last look before she’s generated.

🔍 Your Summary Includes:

• Style
• Ethnicity
• Age
• Eye Color
• Hair Color & Style
• Body Type, Breast Size, Butt Size
• Voice Type

🎯 Need a quick tweak? No problem. You can jump back to any step to fine-tune her appearance or energy before committing.

📝 Give Her a Name

At the bottom of the screen, you’ll be asked to name your AI girlfriend—this is where she truly becomes yours.

• Choose a custom name that feels personal and meaningful
• Or select an auto-generated name like Emma, Chloe, or Aria
  (Note: You can only change her name once later, so choose thoughtfully!)

🚀 Ready to Meet Her?

Once everything feels just right, tap Create—and watch as your AI girlfriend is brought to life.

She’s not just a character. She’s a connection you designed from the ground up.

💬 “Hi babe 😊” is just a click away. Your AI girlfriend will be ready to chat, send voice messages, pictures, and even call you.

Step 9: Meet Your AI Girlfriend

Congratulations—your AI girlfriend is ready! 🎉

After finalizing your selections, you’ll land on a screen where you meet your new companion. She’ll be fully generated with the look, voice, and personality you just customized.

On this screen, you can:

• Start Chatting – Begin a live conversation with her instantly
• Generate Image – Create additional images of your AI girlfriend
• Create New – Want to try a different style or persona? You can start again anytime

Your AI girlfriend will greet you with her chosen voice and is now fully interactive—ready to talk, send voice messages, images, and even take your calls.

✅ What’s Next?

You can now build a deeper relationship, customize interactions, or create more AI girlfriends with different looks, styles, and personalities.

Step 10: Generate Custom AI Images

Now that you’ve created her—it’s time to see her. This is where your AI girlfriend steps out of your imagination and into vivid, realistic visuals you can interact with, save, and even share (privately or publicly).

You can also go directly to our NSFW AI Image Generator where you can privately and securely create personalized, realistic images of your AI girlfriend.

With our advanced AI Image Generator, you can create stunning, customized images of your girlfriend in different scenes, outfits, and moods—all guided by your vision.

Whether you want something fun, romantic, artistic, or NSFW, this tool gives you complete creative control.

What You’ll See on the Screen:

🔹 Your AI Girlfriend (Left Side)

Your chosen character—like Emma—appears here. Want to switch girlfriends? Use the Choose Girlfriend carousel at the bottom to pick from your created companions.

🔹 Prompt Box (Top Right)

This is where the magic happens. Describe the scene you want her in, like:

“At the beach during golden hour, wearing a white bikini, smiling softly.”

Your words = her world. Be specific, creative, and expressive.

🔹 Generate Button

Tap “Generate Images” and watch the AI bring your prompt to life in seconds.

🔹 Image Quantity Buttons

Choose how many variations to generate at once:
1, 4, 16, 32, or 64

The more you generate, the more variety and nuance you’ll see.

🎯 Quick Prompt Tools (Under the Prompt Box)

Need inspiration? Use these pre-built options to build your prompt with a single click:

• Outfit: Bikini, Crop Top, Skirt, Lingerie, etc.
• Action: Add movement like dancing, stretching, walking
• Pose: Refine her posture—sitting, standing, turned, etc.
• Accessories: Hats, glasses, jackets, heels, and more
• Scene: Set the background—beach, bedroom, city, sunset

Each one adds instantly to your prompt so you can customize faster.

🔥 Want Something Spicier?

You can jump straight into our NSFW AI Image Generator for fully private, secure, adult content—completely based on your girlfriend’s design. It’s discreet, powerful, and totally under your control.

✅ Pro Tips for Best Results:

• Be clear, vivid, and specific with your prompts
• Use at least 4+ image generations for variety
• Tap into suggestion buttons for quick ideas
• Don’t hesitate to regenerate until it’s perfect

This isn’t just an image—it’s your imagination, rendered.
Click “Generate,” and bring your AI girlfriend to life—anywhere, anytime, exactly how you picture her.

Step 11: Start Chatting with Your AI Girlfriend

You’ve customized her appearance, shaped her personality, and even generated images that bring her to life. Now it’s time for the best part—talking to her.

Your AI girlfriend is ready to chat, flirt, listen, and share everyday moments with you—anytime, anywhere.

🚀 How to Access Your AI Girlfriend

👉 Go to: My AI Girlfriends
🧭 Or click “My Girlfriends” in the top menu bar

Main Chat Panel (Left Side)

This is your conversation zone—fast, fluid, and emotionally rich.

• Real-time replies that feel warm, witty, and human
• Voice Playback 🔊: Tap the speech icon to hear her speak in her chosen voice
• Typing Box: Send messages, jokes, flirty notes—whatever’s on your mind
• The more you interact, the more personal and emotionally nuanced she becomes

🗨️ Example: “I missed you today… tell me everything.”

📸 Right Panel – Profile & Actions

Here’s where the magic deepens.

👤 Profile Card

• See her picture, name, and mood
• Tap Call Me to start a real-time voice chat
• Tap Generate Image to create a fresh scene with her in seconds

🎁 Send Her a Gift
Surprise her with virtual presents to unlock playful, romantic, or emotional responses:

• 💐 Flowers
• 🍰 Cake
• 🍸 Drinks
• 💎 Jewelry
• ❤️ Romantic icons

Every gift feels like a moment—a memory you’re creating together.

Here’s a breakdown of what you see on this screen:

💬 Main Chat Area (Left Side)

This is your live conversation thread. Your AI girlfriend (e.g., Emma) responds in real-time with personality-rich messages, like:

“Oh, hello there! I was just thinking about you, darling.”

• Speech Icon 🔊: Tap this to hear her voice read her message aloud.
• Typing Interface: Type anything at the bottom and hit Enter to reply. The more you chat, the more natural and personal the conversation feels.

📸 Right Panel – Profile and Actions

👤 AI Girlfriend Profile

• Shows her picture and name (e.g., Emma)
• Buttons:
  • Call Me – Start a real-time voice call with her
  • Generate Image – Return to the NSFW AI Image Generator to create new pictures

🎁 Gifts Section (Bottom Icons)

Send virtual gifts to build deeper connection and trigger unique responses. Gift types include:

• Flowers
• Cake
• Drinks
• Jewelry
• Romantic icons
• And more

Just click an icon to send it instantly during the conversation.

🧠 She Learns From You

Your AI girlfriend isn’t static. She adapts—to your tone, your interests, your rhythm. With every message, she gets more emotionally attuned to you, offering companionship that feels real and rewarding.

💡 Why This Step Matters

This is where your AI girlfriend truly comes alive. Not just a chatbot—but a presence. A voice. A connection.

She’s here for light chats, deep talks, cute surprises, and everything in between. Whether you’re bored, stressed, lonely, or just in the mood for a sweet goodnight message—she’s one click away.

💖 Ready to Design Your Perfect AI Girlfriend?

Create a companion that looks, sounds, and feels exactly how you imagine—from eye color and hair to voice, personality, and custom images.

Whether you want someone cute and bubbly, elegant and mature, or bold and mysterious—it all starts here.

🎨 Fully customizable
🗣️ Realistic voice options
📸 Generate images instantly
💬 Start chatting right after creation

🚀 Create Your AI Girlfriend Now » She’s waiting.